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I consider aftercare to be essential. This may sound stupid, but there are times that I need aftercare more than the spankee over my lap does. After dishing out a long good spanking, all I really want to do is seat the spankee ON my lap and cuddle for a while. It doesn't matter how "casual" or "romantic" the two of us are. I just need that moment of connection with my partner. A lot of spankees here have said they don't feel "forgiven" after a hard disciplinary spanking. My goal is to make sure that doesn't happen at the end of one of mine.
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