[Farmgirl]

I also agree, having been on the receiving end all my life. The comfort of having both upper body and legs supported by a bed allows me to enjoy the spanking with no comfort distractions. I also like a well-padded sofa arm, with the seat cushions doubled for me to put my forearms on and keep my upper body more or less level.

I have gotten nauseous from having my head hang down. The worst was when he sat on a kitchen high stool so that neither my hands nor feet could reach the floor. This is a high degree of vulnerability, which I find very sexy, but the down side is the nausea. If you want to use a high stool make sure your stomach is empty!

I have also lain flat on a bed with pillows under me, which is fine except it lacks intimacy, and I have always found intimacy an integral part of a good erotic spanking. So does the sofa arm lack intimacy, for that matter, but at least there he usually has a hand on my back, and he can proceed after the spanking to....other erotic endeavors.