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Originally Posted by sarah thorne
This can be answered by Tops and bottoms alike!
Bottoms: What position do you prefer for spanking?
Tops: What position do you prefer your spankee to be in for a spanking?
Is your preferred position different depending on type of spanking if your relationship also encompasses discipline as well as play?
Merry Christmas All!
sarah
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It varies for me and relationship does play a big factor. First, there is a difference based on whether it's for play, in the broadest definition, or whether it's for discipline.
With my girlfriend/sub, for most cases in play, I prefer OTK. If we're doing some kind of "scene," though--a rare thing but it does happen--then I prefer whatever is realistic for that scene, i.e. if it's a school paddling, then I prefer that the recipient be bent over a desk.
If it's discipline, I don't have a single position, but prefer whatever works for the time, severity of punishment, and convenience. As a general rule, though, I will say that if OTK works I prefer that, because even while the situation might be serious it still conveys, after a fashion, the fact that we have a relationship and that fundamentally I am still connected to her (sarah), i.e. it offers a degree of intimacy within the context of discipline.