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i like to hand the bottom about to be topped two vicodin 10's and say bend over.....and then just have at it for hours upon end......just kidding.
i myself enjoy seeing the after effects of my handy work. any shade of red is a must for me. obviously different implements will have different effects. long term relationships are good because both know each others limits, wants and needs extremely well.
for me i am ok with bruising, welts etc.... if it is an erotic/sexual spanking i try to make it erotic. however if it is for punishment then i think the spanking should be felt and remembered for a couple days. after all spankings are administered for a reason and to hopefully (not always accomplished) correct the preceding behavior that resulted in the discipline. this is the biggest give and take relationship anyone can ever have. anyway just my two cents
Vice
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