Interesting, with all of the men who would love to properly spank a willing bottom... that your boyfriend does not take your request seriously. Life is full of imbalances, I guess. Hopefully, if he realizes that it is important to you, then he will apply the proper attitude. I guess being a spanko could be learned... but for most of us... it is something that we are drawn to.... and most non spankos may go along.. but do not really get it. Watch a video? Read some spanking fiction? Maybe he will get the idea.