Punishement implements curiosity
Just wanted to get some insight from everyone. What are your thoughts about punishment implements?
I mean.. all implements can be used as punishment or play but how is it decided to have that one certain implement to be used as punishment only and why. |
I have a leather paddle with holes I use for punishment. The only true difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking is intent. Since intent can not always be communicated easily, I've found it easier to signify that THIS paddle means I am displeased and you are being punished. I learned this behaviour after being displeased with someone and after cooling off the sight of thier bare naked ass on my lap distracted me. With the paddle in my hand, I remember why and don't get as easily distracted.
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Thanks Darius... that makes sense. Hopefully others will post too... such as coming from a bottoms point of view and a Tops point of view.
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I have a hairbrush that is reserved for punishment only. I am sure it could be used for goodgirl/other spankings but as I have two hairbrushes, this one has only been used for punishment and has come to be a symbol. Also, belts to me are pure punishment....not leather straps, but...belts...
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Larger paddles(school type ect) are definatly considered as "punishment" implements in my book. But there are smaller wooden paddles that used with less intensity gets my attention in a more uhmm exciting way..Many posts ago I replied to a similiar thread with a list of implements and how I rated them.
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Unfortuantely I cannot answer this one properly. Since I am sooo very sweet and innoncent I have never been punished!
However in my twisted little world I think it all comes down to communication! The forms above are defintely non-verbal forms. I think I would prefer the verbal method. To patiently explain what happened and why I am displeased and why the punishmnet is taking place. Puck As fresh and Pure as freshly driven snow! |
Jax reserves the SL hairbrush for punishment. Since, as someone above said, it's all about intent, I quickly know when I'm told to "go get me my hairbrush", I'm in some serious trouble... We've agreed that I don't get that hairbrush unless I am being punished.
I also get "punished" each time before I have a cigerette, but Jax gets to decide what to use for those issues, so although not used for a long punishment session, his large wooden paddle certainly gets my attention.. |
Punishment v.s. non-pumishment spanking to me is more of how its done and intent rather than impement used. Each implement has it's own feel and I don't care to limit there use in play by restricting the use of one for a sinle purpose. Instead I prefer to alter it use so that what ever is at hand can be used when it is needed to make a piont. That way punishment spankings can be given anywere anytime they are needed and not just when the implemnt chosen is at hand.
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Thanks for posting your links, amber.. very nice btw. Wood is a bad thing.. ugh |
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