same sex spankings
 

Hi everyone,pretty new here and would like to get your thoughts on same sex spankings.My spankee who is also a switch has told me that her male spankee has had fantasies about being spanked by a male and has asked me wether i would do this. I have often had the urge to spank a male so i said i would which will be in a couple of weeks time.what i would like to know is are there any other spankers out there who never having spanked a same sex person would agree to doing it. Also are there any spankees [male or female]who have never yet thought about being spanked by a person of the same sex try it if asked to do so?

Lbgt
 

I am writing this reply to this message because I think it deserves one.
Let me start by saying, that what I have found in allot of circles, is that a true disciplinarian will spank whom ever's bottom if they deserve a good hard spanking. To me spanking is a trip in the way back machine to when times were much different, and guidance was provided to get back on the right track ,by having my bottom bared over a lap, beit mom or dad! The sex of the spanker is irrelevant to administering a sound spanking, as is the sex of the spankee. If someone is "bratting", then they should go ever SOMEONES lap!!!!
So in direct response to the thread, same sex?? well I think some guys do have a bit of a reaction to the thought of "percieved" homosexualism, but most hard core male disciplanarians will most definately grab a paddle and wear that butt out on another male if they deserve it
[ok I hope I am not repeating myself]
Now, on a different note:
People are mainly "bi polar" meaning Male or Female. When the subject of transexualism comes up, allot of times you can hear the guffaws and Eeeks through the net. A submissive type of trans,seeking OTK is met with disreagrd alot of times, OR they are approached, but is seen by the approachee in a light that is not favoured by the trans person[ i.e. M2F being seen as a guy in dress,or as a transvestite fetishist] For most transwomen, being seen as anything other than the gender they are presenting is insulting, and offensive to them,not to mention depressing!!! A TRUE diagnosed transexual will be VERY offended at the hint of "same sex scene" with somone that belongs to the gender that they are trying to transition FROM. Irregardless of "frontal plumbing" we all have a bare bottom, and if needed, it needs to be spanked accordingly.
SO, bottoms up for those who need it, and you administers...grab your paddles or bare hand or whatever, and let the redding begin!!!

Same sex spanking
 

I also think that a true disciplinarian shouldn't have a problem disciplining an adult of the same sex. I think that true and effective adult discipline often requires more than just an otk spanking. When this is the case, I think a member of the same sex has the advantage knowing how to truely humble a member of their own sex. Of course, you need to get to know this person, understand their needs, and develop a relationship that enables you to care enough for them so that whenever and however you discipline them that it is always provided with their best interests at heart.

ahumanishere

If I may. 1 step further.
 

If you look at this from a logical perspective a M2F would be spanked by either another woman or another transwoman to be spanked by the same gender. Opposite of course for F2M.

As spanking is strictly a fun activity for me, I choose only to play with females. During the brief time I switched just to see what the various implements felt like, I would only allow a female to spank me as well.

Spanking me
 

I have had the opportunity to fullfill one gentlemans desire to fullfill his particular punishment fantasy. His only problem is finding time.
Personally I have enjoyed wearing panties and being at the mercy of a mistress several times. I have no problem following her instructions including driving with my pants down so she can have access to me. Being restrained is not a problem. She gives wonderful hand spankings. She knows his to mix the pleasure with the pain. I particularly like the feel if her bare legs and being over her lap. My only problem is that when it comes to using the paddle, strap or whip she doesnt make it count. I'm not a cross dresser but I have enjoyed the feel of silk against my private area since I was a youngster.

I totally understand this concept. It's one of the reasons I prefer to wear gym shorts to give a spanking to a naughty girl. I love the feeling of her bare legs against mine as she settles in for her spanking.

I haven't been on here in a long time. However, I would like to add a little something to this thread. I personally view discipline spanking as totally separate from erotic/ "for fun" spanking. Discipline spanking has NOTHING to do with "plumbing" issues, although I do expect and respect those that are fickle about that sort of thing. I think it would be fair to say that if someone is worried about plumbing, then obviously, sex is somewhere in the agenda. AND HEY, whatever makes the world go round for you. Not bashing or whatever, I'm just saying.
As for me personally, I know that its going to take a special someone to overlook my personal issues, and see me for who I am; and then address my behavioral issues accordingly. Maybe I will get lucky, maybe not.

I suppose it depends on what you get out of spanking; how you feel about spanking; weather or not you strictly separate spanking from eroticism and / or whether or not you have any erotic feelings for (or also for) the same gender.

In my personal experience spanking - including punishment spankings - is always erotic. And if I actually am bi sexual (allegedly we all are) it is buried very deep, so for me spanking another man would not be very enjoyable. By the same token when looking at spanking-porn pics two women never do it for me unless both women are spanked by a man. And lastly since I have a dominant personality, for me it needs to be men spanking women (although I still occasionally allow my wife to spank me if I did something real stupid - fair is fair, I would also spank her for it)

My wife is very compatible with me in all of these aspects. For both of us adult spanking, even if for punishment, is always erotic. The punishment is the pain, it doesn\'t mean we can\'t get horny while we are at it :p So my wife is likely to dress up when she has to appear for a spanking and even when I really let her have it there is always also some flirting going on.

Similarly, because of the sexual nature of spanking in our family, it also stays in the family... i.e. no spanking or getting spanked by someone else.

So for me spanking another man is out. But I always believe, as long as the wife and I can do our thing, everyone else should be allowed to do their thing. The only limitations to that are that everyone involved is an adult and participates in it voluntarily. So for any man thinking of spanking another man... it really is up to you and that other man whether or not you want to go ahead with it. And as other posters have pointed out spanking does not have to be erotic, so sexual preferences do not have to play a role in making the choice either.