Top? Bottom? Switch?
 

New topic for the day!

When active in real life, or if given the opportunity to be active real life, what is in your head? Do you consider youself to be a Top, a bottom, or a switch?

If a switch, which way are you the most and how much?

How has this played out in your real life, if at all?

In my head I'm purely a bottom...I can't even imagine myself spanking someone and I'd think I'd make a lousy Top anyhow cuz I'm a softie.

The only person I've ever spanked was a former girlfriend. But I don't really think of it as being a top, at least not in the traditional sense that most people probably do, but ALL of my interest in spanking revolves around females being spanking. I only love to spank and I only like to see or read about anything that has to do with women being spanked. My fascination with spanking stems from my love affair with the female buttocks, which I think is the greatest creation this world has ever seen. I have never been spanked and never had any desire to be. I have less than zero interest in anything, including spanking, which involves any man's butt, especially my own bony ass. I understand different folks have different tastes, I respect that and don't have any problem with it. But my personal interest in TTWD begins and ends with spanking women and/or women being spanked.

I'm definatly a bottom. I whimper and fuss too much to claim to be otherwise. Lol. Honestly though, I'm a submissive type and not a dominant one.

I've always identified as 100% top. I could argue the different factors which made me that way, but mainly I just accept that it IS that way. I'm just grateful there are forums like this where I can come and meet like-minded people. :)

100% Top.......Its too much fun having a squealing, wiggling bottom under your hand for anything else

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Aunt Vicki here, hello to everyone!

I have always been a top and always will be. Even as a child I used to spank my dolls! Course back then I got a few spankings my self from time to time. That is all in the past now! I take the high road all the way!

AV

Welcome to MSF, Vicki!

I see that you've appeared on Gary's site.

Please join in and contribute on a regular basis. We need good posters!

Mostly top because I love providing spankings but I switched a handful of times with the lady I spanked regularly, partly to see what it was like, and on a couple of occasions because it was great for stress relief and I felt like I deserved it. I've also done some self spanking at the direction of a female friend over the phone...for whom I've provided similar favors. Silly fun!
Rafa

LOL. Didn't we meet at a bottoms up party this past summer ? Great to have you here Aunt V ! Who knows, maybe I'll end up on the recieving end of one of your notorious spankings. Oh but how will that be possible ? I'm so well behaved.

I am definitely a bottom or submissive and have been, I think, since I was very young and got spanked in play by my boy cousin. It thrilled me. I'm the "f" in a M/f relationship now, and I truly do need it to keep myself emotionally whole.

Switching or being a top has never appealed to me although I did it as a kid playing 'house.' If you met me in person you would probably find me to be quite normal, but this is what you would find deep down in my persona.