See, I consider the spankings we got at FMS simply 'play spankings'.

sarah

Yes a distiction but...
 

If we are talking strictly private play (and I hope so becasue I don't want nor do I want to see any erotic spanking in public) then I think once you move into erotic spankings with some one it's hard to stop at the GG line and not go further.

That said if playing with others still happens I definately think that a GG spanking DOES NOT give anyone the right to explore.

Boundaries are our friends,
Kaylex

A GG doesn't have to be erotic
 

I have given GG spankings before without having them be erotic in nature. I don't explore areas other than the bottom unless the person is my girlfriend. I will, however, give someone a very light spanking or generous warm-up if they've done something really nice.

This is SO true. I grew up with a conservative background (so much for that now!) and it took a long time for me to grasp this concept and really embrace it.

There are lots of twists and turns on the spanking fetish. And they all can be cool. If someone posts something that doesn't particularly "fit" with what turns your crank, keep looking...or post something yourself to jump-start it.

We won't bite! And if anyone does, I'll bitch-slap 'em!